3 not-so-simple Steps to Self Love and Satisfaction

3 not-so-simple Steps to Self Love and Satisfaction

“Fighting for self love is one of the hardest journeys I’ve ever ventured into. I feel like we are taught how to grow and succeed by comparing ourselves to our peers. It’s almost like our successes only matter once they have been validated by others. Our beauty is only eminent when there is a lack of show stopping women in the room. Our confidence is only allowed to be strewn when everyone around us is also confident. We have all grown up in a world where we subconsciously spend our time comparing your life to the lives of others. We are constantly setting our goals based off of where other people have reached. But we forget that we cannot achieve the same things at the same pace as each other. There is a time for everything. Everyday I learn the importance of living in the moment and having faith. Everything that is meant to be will be. We push ourselves to extents that we don’t know if we can reach, and when we cannot get there, we punish ourselves with words of self doubt.” – @rurutatyana ig

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Things they don’t tell you before immigrating to the west

Things they don’t tell you before immigrating to the west

“Never be limited by other people’s limited imaginations.”

—Dr. Mae Jemison, first African-American female astronaut

Happy Black History Month Folks! I am so excited to see what this month has in store for everyone. I’m looking forward to coming together to celebrate black excellence and support one and other. I encourage everyone to get out there, and share their stories the best way you know how. Get out there and start a blog, post a youtube video, record your music or write that book! For me, this month is all about empowering others and sharing my own story. This Black History Month energy needs to be a year round vibe!

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Book review: My top 3 Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie faves

Book review: My top 3 Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie faves

Happy New Year! I know its almost the end of the month, but as long as its January I’m sure I can get away with it. These past few months have been incredibly busy and i haven’t been able to write. My goal this year is to really make an effort to write more. I figured a good way to start off this year, would be to share my 2018 favourite books!

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5 TED talks by Women of Colour, that Changed my Perspective

5 TED talks by Women of Colour, that Changed my Perspective

For the past 2 years, reading blogs about fun new inspiring things has been my go to pass time. But I’ve been trying to see what else is out there. I started listening to podcasts like The Read, and the Receipts. They were engaging relatable and all in all hilarious, but I wasn’t getting what I needed from them. That’s when I started looking around for TEDtalks. Continue reading “5 TED talks by Women of Colour, that Changed my Perspective”

Journaling: How to do it productively

Journaling: How to do it productively

In the past few months, I’ve managed to organize my thoughts, goals and ambitions in one little notebook. I began to write in my journal in early 2017 but I wasn’t very good at putting aside the time for it. I would lose focus and interest easily. When I had first started, I was focusing too much on making my journal perfect. I wanted it to be colourful, neat and pretty. I would spend more time doodling than I would expressing my feelings. After a while it got boring, and when I put my journal down I never managed to pick it up again until July of this year.

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4 ways to stay productive during exam season

4 ways to stay productive during exam season

After 6 months of keeping busy and focusing on school, I am finally back on my blog. It’s exam season once again and I’m sure most of us aren’t quiet ready. Today’s post is all about productivity and trying to reduce procrastination! Here are a few tips and things that I like to do while preparing for an exam.

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Trying to live your best life this year?

Trying to live your best life this year?

Welcome to my first post of 2018! Now that the first 2 weeks are over I can officially say that I see good things for this year. I have not managed to come up with a set list of resolutions but my main goal is to stay happy and healthy.  This year I want to see what I’m capable of doing. I’m just trying to live my best life because if you’re not living your best life, what are you doing?

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